D'oh!
I had a funny feeling I would get that email today; one of her coworkers has called in and she's unable to make the date tonight. No, that wasn't in the cards last night. I'm disappointed but I'll get over it. Hopefully we'll be able to reschedule the date for sometime this week, but I'm leaving that in her hands. I'm of the mind that if you have to break a date, you have to set the next one.
We shall see what we shall see. =)
We shall see what we shall see. =)
posted by Serdic at 13:12
16 Comments:
These things happen with shift-work. I'm guessing she was equally disappointed; and, if not, she should be.
We shall see.
Well, I did manage to get some baking done. =) And I just finished dropping her a line to say hi.
/shrug We'll see.
Sorry to hear that Steph. =( I baked last night, so have a cookie. =)
Harumph!
Happy Birthday. =)
Interesting...
I have theories on this matter, but because I don't really know you outside of this blog, I'll keep my opinions to myself. ;)
Go for it. =) The last person you'll offend is me.
In my opinion, if she cancelled the date and didn't schedule another one at the same time -- time to move on to the next.
It's all about interest level...
Fair nuff. It's entirely possible that I'm not the one man she's been dreaming about. /shrug =)
It's not really about what she might say; it's about how much time Serdic's going to waste on it.
Plenty more fish in the sea. Better to spend your time looking for ones that are biting.
Amen, Nail!
As it stands, I've dropped her a line just to say hi, and see how her week is going. I know she's busy, but it would be nice if she responded. Regardless, I'm gonna give her a call tomorrow night and ask for a second date, again.
I can see what Nail and Jesus are saying because it fits with my own experience. With the last one, I always had to initiate contact. The only time she seemed to initiate contact is when she had a problem. At the time, I hadn't realized that "I'm not ready for a relationship", meant "I don't want a relationship with you".
I know I have to play the game to an extent. I'm not special. The rules aren't going to change just for me. However, there comes a point when hard to get becomes just not friggin worth it. If I get to that point, so be it. I'm not going to sit and pine over what could have been or wait with baited breath that she'll be ready someday soon.
I've got cookies to bake, places to go, and people to see. I'm sure someone will want to join me eventually. If nothing happens, all I've lost is a second date. I'm sure I'll get one in the near future.
Steph, that's cause your a female. :)
Serdic, I wish you luck when you call for a second date. Let us know how it goes.
I've been throught this enough. I already know what the answer is -- you just need to figure it for yourself.
Any woman with a really high interest level is going to make arrangements with you - not the other way around.
You're a really nice guy by the sounds of it. You just need to make sure you put your energy into the right person.
I'm pretty sure I know the answer too, but I'm gonna ask anyways. /shrug It's a learning experience. =)
Thanks, Darklight. =) Actually, one thing I took away from your Online Dating guide was, "If they dont' respond, they're not interested."
A funny thing happened on the way to reading her profile. I noticed she has added an age preference, where you must be between 32 and 45 to contact her.
Anyways, I'm fairly sure of what the answer will be. /shrug She's just not that into me.
NEXT!
Good luck Hobbes. Better to go down swinging, so to speak. Keep the faith and if that fails, a dram of single malt can't hurt.
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